Sandy and I at a Marriage Counselor.
I was driving home yesterday and put on a best of New Order CD. Have you ever put on some music from your past and kind of drifted off into that past and thought how much easier life was back then? That is where I was yesterday. My responsibilities were all different. They were party, sex and school. I had nothing else to worry about thanks to my parents. Now they are kids, wife, house, car, bills, work and maybe some free time for me. Listening to the music made me think about some of the girls that I knew and I started wondering what they are up to now. There was Kari that taught me how to spike better in Volleyball. We had some wonderful times talking all night. That was rare for me, usually I only wanted to do one thing at night. Of cause there was Karen the girl that I dated for 5 years of my life and never thought I would ever date anyone that long again, I guess I was wrong. Sandy and I will be going on our 8th anniversary this year and we dated for about 3 years before we got married. There was Trisha that I broke up with Karen for and then dumped when I graduated because I didn't want to have a girlfriend in college while I was at home in the working world. Which worked out great. I would have never met Sandy if I hadn't done that. I think about how I used to harass my parents for being stuck in a musical era, but that is where I have landed. I don't really buy too many new CD's I find that I will listen to the radio, but don't find myself buying CD's for that music. So now I'm stuck in a musical era.
